By Donna Foley Mabry
In 1906, i used to be slightly over fourteen years outdated, and it was once my marriage ceremony day. My older sister, Helen, got here to my room, took me via the hand, and sat me down at the mattress. She opened her mouth to claim whatever, yet then her face flushed, and she or he grew to become her head to seem out the window. After a moment, she squeezed my hand and seemed again in my eyes. She stated, “You’ve regularly been an outstanding lady, Maude, and performed what I informed you. Now, you’re going to be a married girl, and he'll be the pinnacle of the home. in case you pass domestic this night after your get together, it doesn't matter what he desires to do to you, you'll want to permit him do it. Do you understand?” I didn’t comprehend, yet I nodded my head besides. It sounded unusual to me, the best way such a lot of issues did. i might do what she informed me. I didn’t have a call, any further than I had a decision in being born.
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Maude by Donna Foley Mabry